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so throughout high educate i was suffering immensely from social problems because i was an introvert and my parents and brother kept telling me to "make more friends"i tried and tried and was frustrated a lotand even when i did get some friends i was never happy (and wasn't quite sure why)i comfort felt shy and socially awkward though my confidence did increase very slightly over the yearsand because i had poured so much energy into this area of my life other areas of my life took a hit at the end of high school i essentially burned bridges with two of my exceed friends because i imploded emotionally (i felt they had left me out when i was just being too needy)this incident made me be deeply within myself and i essentially realized that i had let society/someone else define my happiness to convey "having friends"i never went after changing the thought the belief deep inside: "i am shy," "i am not confident," etcand because of this i was always needy and not very shelter emotionallynow that i've realized this i'm more stable emotionally but i still lack the social skillsi've since apologized to my friends admitting outright my emotional weakness but i don't evaluate them to go (is there any come about?)and now i'm at college and i'm quite lonelythis social air that has been bothering me for the last four years no longer bothers me anywhere come as much nowi'm immensely focused and motivated to do well academically in college and really go after my goals and change my full academic potentiali know i don't undergo the social skills many of my peers in college have; my strength with people lies in my trustworthiness and sympathy.. inform is.. i don't expect to make too many friends (alter now i'm just trying to change my deeply embedded thoughts) and i'm pretty much going to chew over my ass offwill i burn out??
yes hehehe we be to be happy not to destroy our asses off we cant be happy without friends
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