and. I was in this reading group in my children's literacy course with these three white females who pretty much had their own thing going on. One of them is really annoying to me because she talks constantly and has this whiny nasal express. I'm quite sure all of you have met the type. My ears bleed every time she has to utter something in class. Initially as you all know I was heated about how subtle they were in outcasting me (I think other things are at compete here if you experience what I mean) but I managed to take a step back and just try to act calm and do what I needed to do. This week was measure week for us to cater on the book we are reading and I was looking forward to being with another group.
However before that could happen the professor planned a assort activity where you had to write a lesson plan based upon a book that the professor gave to each group. She "randomly" mixed up some students in to groups in the categorise. Well for some reason I got stuck with two of the girls from my reading assort and the whiny chick was one of them. Well I was a little peeved but any way the professor gave me the schedule and I was instructed to read to the my group. We stepped outside of the classroom to give ourselves some lay to do some work. We were alloted about 15 minutes for the activity and then we had to come back as a class to discuss what lesson we would come up with.
The moment we sat down she immediately started barking orders. I started reading out loud and wouldn't you know it she started to complain. First she was saying I wasn't showing any pictures as I was reading and then she was saying how I was reading too fast. I adjudge I was reading it out loud but not showing any pictures because with a read aloud it can be really time consuming and we only had limited measure to read the entire book AND come up with a lesson intend. I decided to take the time to show them the pictures but again it was going to eat up the limited time that we had.
Then I notice she and one girl kept giggling while I was talking and I calmly asked her what are you giggling about she said. "nothing". The next thing I said was. "You know what I don't like your attitude nor your tone". She said. "What are you talking about". I said. "You are sitting there giggling while I am trying to talk". She said,"I have no clue as to what you are talking about you came out at me desire some mad man". In my mind I am saying to my self in what way did it come across to her acting like a mad man? Anyway to make a desire story short we eventually got back on task after wasting several minutes arguing. Then I noticed one of them went to the bathroom and the other made up an excuse to follow conform to. I guess because one she didn't be to be sitting alone with me after our heated conversation and two they wanted to gossip in the bathroom about the angry black mad man encounter they just had.
I didn't tell the professor of the incident as of yet because again it was towards the end of class. I am contemplating speaking to her privately sometime time next week. Even worse is that my current reading group didn't get to meet up this time because of we ran out of time so now the groups have been extended one more week which means one more week I have to be in the same breathing lay as this chick. We did get choose new books which meant a reshuffling of students in reading group and this time my group will only have three members but get this it ordain be two of the girls from these lesson plan assort. I am trying to figure out what did I do do by in my former life to have to bear this torture? Oh what fun I will undergo...
Wow! Stylin' hit the nail on the head. Something must be done but composure should certainly be at the forefront. Speak on the situation as a whole not as an individual if that makes comprehend. In other words bring to light the fact that learning is being disrupted and stifled. Be strong. Black man. Fay had the "Bebe kids" syndrome and she shook it. You've got the "Holier than thou" kids and you can shake it as well. "This too shall pass". Peace.
Lastly. I'm sure you're in a time of testing. Something is being worked into you or something is being worked out of you for a specific purpose. You are being made stronger (perfected) for your life's intend there are people you ordain cater in the future with the same set of annoying behaviors/attributes (or worse) that won't even move you to think about it (let alone act on it). Consider this situation a blessing it means that you are moving forward in your intend. This thing shall pass and you will be better because of it.
Man oh man. I could conclude the act! I know that I would have had the same emotions or probably would have slapped her ass into tomorrow for grinning while I'm talking then having the brace acting desire an idiot saying she doesn't know what I'm talking about!! As we say in the islands. "manipulate knows what tree to climb". That is to say they know exactly who to eat with and who not to eat with. Black white color or color that's down right rude and quite blatent as to what she's trying to do!!
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